tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post5934648369726165020..comments2023-06-03T13:18:56.716+01:00Comments on no way out: no way outdognamedbluehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comBlogger45125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-33944954308426739362015-05-01T00:55:24.739+01:002015-05-01T00:55:24.739+01:00I've never experienced such sustained physical...I've never experienced such sustained physical violence, but the mental violence is possible to come back from. Even when it lasts decades.<br /><br />Later this year I'll have a story of my own to tell. It might help. I hope so.Legironhttps://underdogsbiteupwards.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-10477713896367219582015-04-17T23:07:40.547+01:002015-04-17T23:07:40.547+01:00Dognamedblue, correct me if I'm wrong but is t...Dognamedblue, correct me if I'm wrong but is this you you're writing about. My ex wife ran off with my son and someone who was supposed to be a friend. I was unaware he was a child abuser and i eventually found out by his victims, his son and sons mother. Luckily enough I found out fast and i let the whole of my City know he was a child abuser so there was no where for him to hide, now he knows if he ever lays a finger on my son i'll end him. If it is you you're writing about then stand tall, chin up and be proud that you survived, you're a survivor, don't let it ruin your life because then they win.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15008092442374345564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-70215800358728720642014-01-08T04:29:11.604+00:002014-01-08T04:29:11.604+00:00Bugger all wrong with your writing. :-) Bugger all wrong with your writing. :-) By Daffodilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14491003863887580336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-59109876180439677092013-12-25T05:22:24.833+00:002013-12-25T05:22:24.833+00:00when I've been down it's been reading your...when I've been down it's been reading your blog that has always helped me through<br />some are hard to read, but they have to be read or what they're about may just end up not being here, if no one is watching they just may not exist<br />some are just a pleasure on a different train of thought (although some don't like you being interested in other things)<br />and the replies are always as much a part of the blog as the blog itself<br />thank you & merry christmas to you<br />a.dognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-83314527703497788882013-12-25T05:13:07.946+00:002013-12-25T05:13:07.946+00:00NO YOU'RE THE INSPIRATION!NO YOU'RE THE INSPIRATION!dognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-42786064603335566212013-12-24T18:58:17.748+00:002013-12-24T18:58:17.748+00:00Merry Christmas. Very many thanks for all the comm...Merry Christmas. Very many thanks for all the comments you've written on my blog. You are inspirational.<br /><br />- from AangirfanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-52177718806673328392013-07-29T15:18:51.111+01:002013-07-29T15:18:51.111+01:00I got a phone call from Victim Support this mornin...I got a phone call from Victim Support this morning, the Manchester Police have instructed the Bolton Police to reopen the case again, they want to speak to 2 of my uncles, I haven't seen either of them in nearly 30 years<br />I had to write the letter asking Manchester Police myself as I can't afford to pay a solicitor & as it wasn't sexual abuse none of them were really interested as they wouldn't be able to make any money out of it anyway<br />Victim Support seemed genuinely "excited" [not the right word] that my letter had been successful but for some reason I don't feel as good, just a bit sick, probably because my laptop crashed that had everything on it & I'm lost without itdognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-36649138987579683282013-07-06T15:26:11.469+01:002013-07-06T15:26:11.469+01:00I can only apologise for not getting back to you s...I can only apologise for not getting back to you sooner A13 but literally the day of the post my laptop crashed & I wasn't able to get online<br />I was using my mobile phone but only got internet when I bought enough credit but that din't last as I wasn't going to buy credit I wasn't using for anything<br />thank you for your offer, I'm not really able to go through things at the moment, mentally, the police have been in touch with victim support but not with me for some reason, so still in limbo as it were & I think it's better if I try to avoid it all together at the moment, for my own sanity lol<br />if I ask someone nice;y they let me use their laptop to surf around but it's windows8 & doesn't have any of my software on it so it's not something I like but it does force me to do a bit more art which I'm trying to get back into<br />again thank you it does mean something to think their are others out theredognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-38707911127275419582013-04-22T02:45:10.506+01:002013-04-22T02:45:10.506+01:00Hi DNB, Thats crap news..so sorry to hear that..
I...Hi DNB, Thats crap news..so sorry to hear that..<br />IMO abuse is abuse..it still hurts, it still disables, it still effects you for the rest of your life...<br /><br />At least you tried, but it doesn't help the healing process, if there is one, when one form of abuse takes precedence before all others...<br /><br />I hope things are going better for you anyway..if you ever want to chat you can email me...<br />I was adopted and al;so treated like shit by my adopted parents.. I'm still effected by it and have the deep pain..debilitating sometimes.<br />thirteenthmonkey@y7mail.com<br /><br />All the best and thoughts and prayers :)<br /><br />A13https://www.blogger.com/profile/00819669787748984989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-53383028969857859532013-04-04T15:27:10.049+01:002013-04-04T15:27:10.049+01:00since spoken to 3 solicitors that deal with this k...since spoken to 3 solicitors that deal with this kind of thing<br />& they all say as it's not sexual abuse I need a police conviction before they could take it on<br /><br />so back in to limbo I go<br /><br />I've asked victim support to ask the scottish police to ask the english police to investigate it again as all 3 said the police are running around like headless chickens for not bothering with these types of cases before<br />but I'm not holding my breath<br /><br />just makes me feel sick, don't know why I even bothereddognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-33431024020858426992013-03-28T23:13:38.312+00:002013-03-28T23:13:38.312+00:00got an early phone call today
she was stuck in cou...got an early phone call today<br />she was stuck in court so arranged a new time<br /><br />at least that's better than a "no"dognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-45429919001718736122013-03-25T13:39:34.712+00:002013-03-25T13:39:34.712+00:00finally got shit together & have a telephone c...finally got shit together & have a telephone call at 2.30pm this thursday with Farleys<br /><br />I guess it either goes yes or no point bothering <br /><br />I hope it's yesdognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-68012858162436963202013-03-21T12:01:41.301+00:002013-03-21T12:01:41.301+00:00hope things are going ok for you A13
I think lawy...hope things are going ok for you A13<br /><br />I think lawyers have a different understanding of the word time<br />finally got a reply from them yesterday after another this time 3 week delay so have to phone them up to take it a step further but they were ok with my uncle's case so happy to give them time it may work out in the long run, hopefully<br /><br />I still get suckered into the programming even though I try my best not to <br /><br />hope things get better<br />dognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-11689863125127063852013-03-17T08:20:42.751+00:002013-03-17T08:20:42.751+00:00How are you going DNB
I've been doing it prett...How are you going DNB<br />I've been doing it pretty hard, <br />Hope you are well and the court thing you posted above about is sorted.<br />It's weird predictive programming alright but i've decided to just be aware of it as much as i can on all levels and to bunker in as they say..<br />that's why i've written sweet fu@% all lately..<br />All the best to you.<br />AA13https://www.blogger.com/profile/00819669787748984989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-52866204890318177102013-01-04T23:56:11.420+00:002013-01-04T23:56:11.420+00:00with regards to why my blog hasn't been update...with regards to why my blog hasn't been updated since september:<br />at first I was just going to leave it for the month of september whilst I listened to "secrets of the beehive" for that month<br />then I remembered how for a few years in the past I was annoying those people that folks believe voting for makes a difference, until secret services decided to pay an interest, & decided to use twitter to restart my annoying activities again & wanted to have a fall back, you know people can read this then think twice about trying to shut me up this time<br />I was finishing off some art for christnas presents & the news was on in the background talking about savile & jonathon bridges from farley's solicitors was being quoted saying it was disappointing for the victims who would get nowhere with any inquiries<br />we are using farley's solicitors to help us get answers to why my uncle was jailed & died handcuffed to a bed<br />I see them in a couple of weeks & we are then in court in february for farley's to get the answers & I was going to ask the manchester office about jonathon bridges & if they wanted to read this blog<br />so things will be this way a bit longer, until february at least<br />that's if I don't decide to give the net, or hg wells' "world brain" a miss all together, it's all just predictive programming anyway, a very few people you can trust, or would even want to ;)dognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-25214295458278954632013-01-02T11:39:41.609+00:002013-01-02T11:39:41.609+00:00happy new year to you A13!
thank you for the best ...happy new year to you A13!<br />thank you for the best wishes & I hope your new year has started well & continues that way :)<br /><br />paintings going ok, have decided to stop doing the copy art as I'm just hiding from having to do my own :)<br />next up is "the secret garden of citizen S" with all their masonic symbols, can't resist itdognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-41072702412719424752013-01-02T11:25:35.126+00:002013-01-02T11:25:35.126+00:00thank you Aangirfan
& happy new year to you to...thank you Aangirfan<br />& happy new year to you too :)<br />hope all goes welldognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-12750971163341279752012-12-31T22:52:34.775+00:002012-12-31T22:52:34.775+00:00Happy New Year DNB :)
Hope 2013 is a great year fo...Happy New Year DNB :)<br />Hope 2013 is a great year for you..<br />How is your painting going??<br />Love from Down Under <br />AA13https://www.blogger.com/profile/00819669787748984989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-80302806160761730832012-12-24T15:45:17.178+00:002012-12-24T15:45:17.178+00:00Have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
-...Have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.<br /><br />- AangirfanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-39718096624538626612012-12-24T15:41:15.824+00:002012-12-24T15:41:15.824+00:00thank you A13
& merry christmas & happy ne...thank you A13<br />& merry christmas & happy new year to you<br /><br />[I did mean to get back to the "lighthouse" thread, honest: it's a shame as J says, the lighthouse keeper used to retire & pass it on to his children, every generation, but now it's just a shirt & tie in an office pressing buttons. I used to work with this "old timer" who was born in a lighthouse, so was his dad, so was his granddad, all finished with now]dognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-12403232433312925572012-12-24T09:10:36.417+00:002012-12-24T09:10:36.417+00:00Merry Christmas DNB..
hope your days are Going OK ...Merry Christmas DNB..<br />hope your days are Going OK during this time..<br />Blessings, peace , love and hugs to you friend.<br /><br />Cheers and prost mate :)<br />A13<br /><br />Happy day :)<br />A13https://www.blogger.com/profile/00819669787748984989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-35492902673124573322012-12-23T16:13:00.842+00:002012-12-23T16:13:00.842+00:00Hi DNB. How are you doing? Wanted to visit to see ...Hi DNB. How are you doing? Wanted to visit to see if you are posting anything new?<br /><br />Hmmm. It's Dec 23, 2012. WOW am still here. Not that I thought otherwise. 3D World still here and we don't seem any more... "Conscious Evolved" either. As I expected...nothing happened, wasn't suppose to...yet! Just another fucking day in the stupid Matrix. :)<br /><br />Take care.<br /><br />DS888Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09436365269556468367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-68832120474722312462012-12-12T21:11:54.694+00:002012-12-12T21:11:54.694+00:00there are three [cassette] tapes I have that deal ...there are three [cassette] tapes I have that deal with breathing, amongst other things, one is from a book on self hypnosis [will have to get it from the book shelf for the title], one by a guy called paul mckenna called "deep relaxation" & the third is from a shrink, I think he might have had it produced for his sessions dealing with murderers in prisondognamedbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05123316205972254808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-26554084693005142412012-12-11T18:47:38.343+00:002012-12-11T18:47:38.343+00:00Thank you for your story.
I will check the rest of...Thank you for your story.<br />I will check the rest of your blog with interest.<br />My advice = vent your rage on a cushion or punchbag [if your wrists are strong enough]. Scream it out.. feel the pain. Easier said than done so of course i am screaming hypocrite but you seem smart enough to take good advice, which i hope that was, from hypocrites.<br />That breathing exercise sounded good. Title?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3833363424082451023.post-81114688764382204562012-12-09T20:17:42.560+00:002012-12-09T20:17:42.560+00:00Wow. How heart-wrenching. I've taken my share ...Wow. How heart-wrenching. I've taken my share of abuse in this life, but have no right to complain. I pray you find the healing, and the refuge, and trust you need, to experience relief, and even some joy, in this life. It is possible for anyone - but especially for the innocent. G-D bless!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com